![]() And being a male and a gay male made me even more of a minority. Knowing that I am an infj person made all the pieces fall in place. I did get better and I’m walking and talking and back to physically where I was before the stroke. But despite that my soul kept telling me you will get better and you will be an even better person. A little less than two years ago I had a major stroke. I always had strangers come up to me and tell me things that I would never admit to anyone. My friends are good and they always asked for advice. I retired from a long very successful career as a primary grade teacher. It took me a while to break free what was expected of me and live my own life. Then throw in the INFJ side of things and it’s even harder. Being born in the very conservative Pentecostal right wing Republican family and being a liberal gay male is not easy. I went through life trying to find out who exactly I am. I don’t fit into a category the rest of them fit into. I don’t act like them I don’t think like them. All my life I thought I am so different from my family and others. I’ve discovered a little over two years ago that I am an infj. It will help the show and its ranking in iTunes immensely! We would be eternally grateful! Want to learn more? Discover Your Personal Genius If you like the podcast and want to help us out in return, please leave an honest rating and review on iTunes by clicking here. To subscribe to the podcast, please use the links below: Helpful resources for the INFJ personality type:ĭeveloping Your INFJ Personality Type (by Donna Dunning) Focus what you got as gift and not as a burden to others. Do what you can to see yourself as a person who has positive things to contribute to the world.Manage and learn strategies that will help you figure out a way to let the energy come in and go out. You can’t change that you’re going to absorb people’s emotions.Allow yourself to be understood and form the relationships you’ve been desiring. Continue to look for people who understand you.This will help you get other’s needs met. Honor what you need in the moment and be willing to take care of it.Get sensitive to what those needs are in real time. Getting your needs met means you take care of yourself. When getting everybody’s needs met, you’re basically part of everybody.If you change the word use, you can change reality. Change the way you talk about yourself and think of ways of being a co-creator. Words have power and the way you describe yourself will become your reality.You need to develop techniques to let it go. You don’t have to absorb other people’s emotions and have it stay there.If you are an INFJ personality type or know someone who is, here are a few things you need to note:.They have extraordinary capabilities within them. INFJs are not in the receiving end in victimization.Jesus of Nazareth, Gandhi and Martin Luther King Jr were probably INFJs.Because they are so aware of what’s going on with the other person, they end up having one-sided relationships. ![]() INFJs are also able to see how things will play out in the future and this is one of the reasons why they are hesitant to build intimacy with other people.They’ve taken the harmony process in order to understand and create healthy boundaries. INFJs who are developed and growth oriented don’t retreat to coldness.It’s difficult for the INFJ personality type to build intimacy with another person.The less expressive they get, the more pain they experience. The more sensitive they are, the more they have the tendency hiding.INFJs are very sensitive to the emotions of other people that they end up absorbing them.When a person with the INFJ personality type tries to figure out what to do, the first thing that pops in their mind is, “how do we make sure everybody’s needs are met?” This process is in tuned with unspoken social contracts that we accept. Because this isn’t something verifiable, other people just don’t believe them or reject what they radiate. They’re actually watching their own mind work and form patterns. Their mental process is called ‘Perspectives’.2 important components to understand INFJs:.INFJs have the tendency to feel very misunderstood.We have an unusually high number of INFJs represented in Personality Hacker.This podcast episode talks about the INFJ personality type.In this podcast on the INFJ Personality Type you’ll find: In this episode Joel and Antonia dive deep into the needs and desires of the INFJ personality type. Download Episode Here – right click link and select “Save Link As…”
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